Don’t listening to others = hard
by marteandkristin
I really love that picture. Hahaha today, I thought of something (I know, I think to much) that I really care about other peoples opinion. The other day I ordered some shorts from Runwaydreamz (birthday present), and when I showed my mother the shorts I had selected, she said “you can find much better shorts to such a lower price than that!” But I loved them, and I ordered them. If this situation happened some years ago, I probably wouldn’t have ordered them. Well, when it comes to my family, I don’t care about situations that silly, when it comes to clothes, shoes and looks, thats my descision, so I can laugh at it when I get older 
Either way, I am one of those people who care alot of what people think. If I for an example feel healthy, and someone says “Marte, you look sick!”, I start to think “Ohhh no, do I??” And as a result, I get sick. According to the law of attraction, If you say “I don’t want to sick”, you do get sick, because the law does not answer to words like no, don’t or other negative words. The law responses to what you are thinking of and what you want, but if you use negative words, you will get that too. What I am trying to say is, do we really need other peoples opinion? Do we need other people to approve what we are thinking and mean? I don’t see the point, we are supposed to be independent people with our own opinions, and even though the society says something else, we are not suppose to care… BUT WE DO! If someone said to me that I was a mean person, I would have thought of it, even though that I know that I am not. It is like poison, it brings no good.and spreads quickly. Therefore, when I saw this picture on weheartit, I instantly liked it. If we care less, smile more and try to feel good ( which is very important for receiving things), we will:
1. Feel better about ourself.
2. Get a higher confidence.
3. Laugh more.
4. Be more spontanius.
5. Receive more.
The biggest part of the Secret, is btw to feel good. And those tips seem very smart 
What do you mean about this?
Marte
Confidence can really only come from God. Amen Sister.
Agree!
Wonderful Pic and such a motivating article. I would also like to thank you for the like on my blog
Loved this
I came over to your blog to say thank you for the like! … then I got caught up in your blog! It is fantastic and very aesthetically pleasing. This particular post was very inspiring. I liked your point on gaining more confidence…I find that the more self assure I am…the more confidence I have in myself and my abilities the less the “outside noise” as I like to call it effects me and my life perspective. Again great post and thanks for the like! Here is a quote that related to the post I thought you might like!
“Insecurity will always rent the space it occupies, but confidence will own the building and any room it steps in to.” ~Unknown
I just love your attitude – both of you. I wanted to give you an award for your blog. Someone just gave it to me and part of the deal is to pass it on to other good blogs. You get my first one. Pick it up here http://mygardenblue.wordpress.com/2012/03/12/oh-happy-day/
Just scroll down a bit and you’ll see it. If you need any help just email me at donnaj71 @ gmail . com (just take out the spaces)
This is all good advice, and it is absolutely true! Think Big, Think Positive, Change Your Thoughts…Change Your World!
I love all the positivity! Could you do me one favor, though? Could you make the font black . . . and bold? My middle-aged eyes cannot handle small and gray! (Lots of people over 40 have this problem.)
Thanks,
YUR
Im so glad ur into the law of attraction, i think its something everyone should understand. Honestly as someone still learning about the loa as well i agree with you. It is hard to not let others opinions effect u, especially when its family. At least at first its hard. But soon it gets easier and soon you notice how much their opinions arent whats best for you. Im really liking your blog more and more hahaha
Great post – you’re very wise for your years
..and despite what I might say, I too care what people think of me… can’t help myself…
Faith and spirituality have always been a significant part of my life. Take either one of these away, and I will simply cease to be who I am. Take me or leave me. I no longer worry what others think.
I’ll say it again:
Take me or leave me. I no longer worry what others think.
If you can’t accept me as I am then you’re not worth my spending time with. I’m still the same person I always was, with the one exception that my faith has become more important to me since coing to understand The Law of Attraction.
–
Chris
Hi just to let you know I nominated you for the very inspiring blogger award and the sunshine award go to my blog and its the post called thank you to mary for passing on the awards!
I learn so many interesting things from the blogs I read. I too concern myself with what other people think of me. The next thing I will do today is download The Secret. Your blog is so inspiring and thanks for sharing!